Untangling Relationships Podcast
Join us for a conversation between a counselor and a yoga teacher, a millennial and a Gen Xer, and a mother and daughter.
Your hosts Janae Kara, TCTSY-F, and Penney Rockhill, LCPC engage in conversations centered around the relationships we all have and the common trip-ups we encounter.
Untangling means exploring how to communicate, create, and enjoy the many wonderful relationships we have throughout our lives. We welcome listeners to learn more about themselves, and their communication patterns and gain new skills to up their connections.
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Ep. 39 Caretaking Vs. Caregiving Pt. 2: A Deep Dive Into Caretaking
In this episode of 'Untangling Relationships,' hosted by Janae and Penney, the discussion centers around caretaking, part two of a three-part series on caretaking versus caregiving. Key topics include recognizing caretaking behaviors in oneself and others, understanding the motivations and consequences of caretaking, and the impact of blurred boundaries on relationships. The hosts also delve into the importance of holding boundaries, the repercussions of covering up for caretakers, and strategies for changing caretaking dynamics. The episode provides reflections, tips, and the importance of looking at internal validation, all aimed at fostering healthier relationships.

Ep. 38 Caretaking Vs. Caregiving Pt. 1
In this episode, Penney and Janae give an introduction to Caretaking and Caregiving in relationships. They explore how these dynamics can lead to conflict and how to recognize what role you might be playing in these relationship dynamics.

Ep. 37 Relationship Check-Ins That Work: From Autopilot to Intentional Connection
Join Janae and Penney in this episode of 'Untangling Relationships' as they explore the importance of regular relationship check-ins. They discuss how over time, relationships can grow distant as daily demands and other responsibilities take precedence. This episode provides a detailed approach to conducting monthly relationship check-ins, focusing on maintaining intimacy and trust. Key topics include the effects of autopilot mode on relationships, the importance of appreciation and support, and strategies for overcoming conflict. Practical questions and tips for enhancing connection are shared to help couples navigate their relationship journeys.

Ep. 29 Trustworthiness vs. Trust: Crafting Unbreakable Bonds in Love
In the realm of relationships, trust and trustworthiness lay the foundation upon which intimacy and connection are built. Episode 29 of "Untangling Relationships," hosted by Janae and Penney, delves into these critical elements, providing listeners with a deep understanding of their meanings and implications within romantic and other relationships.

Ep 28. Navigating Love and Conflict: An Analysis of Intimate Conversations
Unraveling the Knot: Uncovering the 6 Predictors of Divorce Through Reality TV. It's often said that truth is stranger than fiction, but when it comes to understanding the complexities of relationships and the subtle nuances that predict divorce, reality TV might just provide some of the best real-life examples. In this post, we'll break down some key insights and concepts as illustrated by an episode from the reality show "Married at First Sight."

Ep. 27 Can Love Last? Predictors of Divorce Explored Through 'Married at First Sight'
Unraveling the Knot: Uncovering the 6 Predictors of Divorce Through Reality TV. It's often said that truth is stranger than fiction, but when it comes to understanding the complexities of relationships and the subtle nuances that predict divorce, reality TV might just provide some of the best real-life examples. In this post, we'll break down some key insights and concepts as illustrated by an episode from the reality show "Married at First Sight."